This week’s topic is connect. So without further ado, here is my five minutes on connect.
Its hard to connect.
Hard to find the right person who really GETS you. The person who can see your soul. See right through what you say and do.
It doesn’t have to be a spouse. My spouse can do that. He can see right through me and know when something else is going on. But there are other people to whom we connect.
We connect with people online. Our “friends” on facebook. Some are people we have met in person and some are people who share interests causing us to form a connection.
We connect with people in lines at the store. Maybe we don’t want to connect with them, but oftentimes, when standing in line, there is a connection formed.
We connect, as parents, with other parents. We take our kids out together and allow them to play.
We connect with various social groups. Churches, interest groups, etc. There is always someone else who shares a common interest.
But even in this world where connection is so easy (we have the internet, cell phones, cars, etc.) we do a lot of disconnecting from the immediate world around us. We hide in our homes. We play on the internet and “connect” virtually but not in person. We watch tv and keep a “connection” with current events but don’t participate in them.
So in reality, despite the fact that we have lots of opportunities to connect, a lot of times we choose to disconnect instead. To set ourselves apart from the world and live in our own little bubbles.
I wonder if all our technology that should help us to connect is actually to blame for our disconnect?
And there you have it. My 5 minute writing on the topic of connect. More random this week, I think. But perhaps it stems off of my own feeling of disconnect with the live world around me versus the virtual world that I put myself into. Anyway, I am linking up to Lisa-Jo Baker’s Five Minute Friday. Check her page out for other blogger’s responses to the topic.